With his epic film Avatar, director James Cameron offers an important but probably undesired gift to Westerners: the ability to feel sorry.
The movie gives Western viewers an opportunity to do emotionally what the movie's main characters do physically: to experience the clash of civilizations from the point of view of the indigenous peoples being invaded.
In the film, earthlings take on genetically manufactured bodies of the indigenous Na'vi race found on planet Pandora. Likewise, Western moviegoers get the metaphorical opportunity to enter into the skin of the indigenous peoples around the world who have been so damaged by their encounters with Western civilization over the past 600 years.
By creating a vivid other world and plunging moviegoers into it in three dimensions, Cameron gives viewers a chance to set aside their defense mechanisms and preconceived notions about justice and history, taking them on the type of experience that I believe is a necessary part of the process of reconciling the West with the Rest.
In learning about and sharing ideas on reconciliation over the past several years, I've learned that both forgiveness and repentance are necessary if reconciliation is to take place.
Forgiveness, quickly stated, means to not require of the guilty party the payment due for an injustice that has been committed. Repentance, on the other hand, means to renounce not only the injustice that was committed but also the core thinking ("I deserve this more than you," "I am better than you") that enabled the injustice in the first place.
Both forgiveness and repentance must first take place within the individual, but the process takes on social meaning when it moves on to an encounter between offending or offended others in the form of a pronouncement of forgiveness or an apology. It can also involve gestures to repair the wrongs that were done.
BUT, I DON'T FEEL SORRY
Problems is, the descendants and heirs of those responsible for past injustice often simply do not feel sorry about what was done in the past, because they don't feel connected to it.
How can one be expected to repent and to apologize or repair injustice when one does not feel sorry?
It is only when people see and feel the harm of what was done, even in past generations, that they can begin to reject the wrong thinking they have often unknowingly inherited from their progenitors.
To make matters more complicated, the guilt and pain and resentment between the groups in question make it difficult for them to get close enough to begin to see into each other's experiences.
It is generally only those who develop intimate relationships with peoples who were negatively impacted by injustice who begin to understand the lasting impact of the past on current generations.
These people who get close (through marriage, close friendship or living among the "others") enter into the skin of the people in question, they feel their pain and begin to grasp the implications of what was done, particularly to the victim group's souls and psyches.
Those who develop these intimate relationships are the people who feel sorry. They are the people who repent. These are the people who, in my own experience, helped me to forgive.
But few European Americans get the chance to live closely and intimately with Native American or Black American culture. Few Europeans experience intimately African cultures that were impacted so negatively by colonization there.
Few Australians get the chance to enter into the experience of the aboriginal people there.
Few Westerners get the chance to live among Arabs, developing the relationships necessary to understand what the humiliating colonial past meant to Arabs across the Middle East and how that continues to affect the world today ... how that colonial past is deeply tied to the perception and reaction to Israel's existence today, for example.
SHORTCUTS TO INTIMACY
So it's invaluable to find ways for people to experience intimacy that normal life is unlikely to produce any time soon. We need intimacy shortcuts for people groups.
For the Reconciled seminars I have been presenting for the past few years in Burundi, France and in the United States, I've been trying to develop an interactive role-playing game based on the past 600 years of world history designed to help participants understand the impact of culture clashes on today's relations.
The idea was to get people to experience how we are tied to our ancestors and how our own sense of value is tied to theirs. We wanted to help people feel the need to be worth as much as other peoples and the frustration of having that need denied.
But Cameron touches emotions in Avatar that I never could have dreamed of reaching.
HURTING WITH THEM
When you experience the devastation of the Na'vi in Avatar, you have a chance to taste for a moment the pain that so many peoples around the world have felt.
Few, if any, experiences before Avatar have caused my spirit to grieve for what was done in the name of my country and of my faith, in particular to the Native Americans.
As the film reached its climax I felt deeply saddened, humbled and sorrowful. For some reason, I thought of Mt. Rushmore and felt profound shame as I imagined the Lacota Sioux people standing by as dynamite blasts blasphemed the majestic mountain scape they had known as Six Grandfathers, carving out of this holy site the giant busts of men that, in their eyes, had overseen the ethnic cleansing and genocide of their people.
One scene, in which the stunned Na'vi walk through the devastated center of their culture, with ash falling and floating around them, is eerily reminiscent of Ground Zero in New York, as stunned Americans tried to make sense of the destruction of the World Trade Center towers.
Cameron thus gives viewers the opportunity to connect their own recent trauma with the trauma that others have felt. "Have we caused others to feel the horror of what we felt on Sept. 11, 2001?"
FROM THE HEAD TO THE HEART
This film experience caused my heart to follow what my head had long since understood. I had known in my head that what was done to Native Americans was horrible. But it had been too easy for me to dismiss this as one of those facts of history that every people on earth has endured.
"Kingdoms and peoples rise and fall," I might have been tempted to think. "That's the way the world goes." And plus, as an African-American, I had felt exonerated from the need to deal with this issue. It wasn't my problem. My people had nothing to do with it.
But Avatar did not allow me to come to the film as a Black American. It pulled me into the skin of a Na'vi living on Pandora. It built a new world around me that allowed me to forget, to a large degree, the realities of my own.
I was able to process the experience without the natural defenses and devices we use to deflect the discomfort of guilt and responsibility.
And so just as the Na'vi in the film found themselves defenseless against the selfishness and ignorance of their intruders, so was my soul without a weapon to beat back the ugliness of what I was witnessing. I felt what it feels like to have everything that matters to me, the very essence of my identity and my reality, ripped up at the roots, as if it meant nothing.
I felt what it was like to realize that nothing about me and my identity mattered. It was a horrible feeling that I knew all too well. But Avatar helped me feel it for others, rather than having it be about me.
NOT SO EXAGGERATED
Some might argue the villains in the film were cartoonishly simple in their greed, ignorance and sense of superiority. Others might feel a need to defend their forefathers as being much less ignorant and cruel than those represented in the film. But it is important to note that their perception in the eyes of their victims is often very much as the movie portrays.
In our seminars we encourage people to seek to confront the ugliness and heaviness of the past rather than seeking to avoid it, rationalize it and push it off on others. We encourage people to face the discomfort, guilt and sorrow head-on.
If we don't understand the reality and impact of our past, we can't feel sorry. We won't reject and turn from the thoughts and practices that led to injustice.
We won't work to repair the injustices of the past and to seek justice in the present.
We will never understand why people like Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab are willing to blow up airplanes filled with people. We will just look at people like him and decide that they are the only problem. And so, the cycle of misunderstanding and vengeance will continue.
Of course Avatar cannot cause us to think or act differently. But for a moment at least, this movie gives us a chance to feel something different. Perhaps, for some of us, these feelings will be the beginning of a new journey.
Todd... Thanks for this lucid, succinct distillation of your work and perspective in relation to this film. I have resisted seeing it because I'm not a Cameron fan and I feared it was a simplistic, paternalistic excuse to blow things up. Now I may catch a matinee.
Posted by: jude | January 09, 2010 at 06:36 PM
Recently I've read some criticism of Avatar based on the fact that, as in many movies and books, Western heroes have to come to the rescue of the native peoples.
http://movies.yahoo.com/news/movies.ap.org/some-see-racist-theme-alien-adventure-avatar-ap
I have to admit that I did think of this while watching the film and that I was also uncomfortable with this reality.
But in the end, the importance of the message of identification with others being key to understandin and repentance overshadowed this problem.
Posted by: Todd B | January 13, 2010 at 11:25 AM